Creating Balanced Self-Worth
The seven attributes that can help you correct the imbalance in your self worth.
Some of them are easy, some of them are hard, some of them are simple in their explanation, and some of them are not. Some of them are going to sound overly simplistic. "Well, I knew that," you might say when you hear it. So I will say back to you, "Then why aren't you doing it?" If you practice the seven attributes regularly, you will begin to provide self-worth balance.
1. Get Creative
Do something creative!
You may say, "I have nothing whatsoever that is creative." Yes, you do. All of you do. Try being creative on your own, try being creative on paper. You might be shocked and surprised. You don't have to show what you do to anyone, ever. Do something creative. Perhaps you don't consider yourself a singer, so instead, write a tune. Let someone else sing it. Perhaps you're not a painter, paint anyway. Let the child out to paint pictures that you painted when you were a child. Do something creative. It sounds overly simplistic, doesn't it? You watch how these things will meld one into another, when number one becomes number seven. The circle of attributes that I'm giving you now will be far more profound than they sound now. Creativity accomplishes something for you that almost nothing else can. It knocks at the door of yourself, and begins to exercise the parts of you that need to be awakened.
2. Help Others
This one sounds simple until elaborated. So I'll just get right to it: volunteer in a place where people are dying. Go find the place where the children are dying, and plant yourself there. Find those dying with the cancers and viruses, and put yourself there. Read to them, hold their hands, and tell them stories. Volunteer. You might say, "I would sob at the door and be no good to anyone." this is a common misconception... that humanitarians could not help because they're so sensitive. So I'm going to give you a postulate and then ask you to go prove it for yourself: When you stand at the door of that place where those children are dying, and you open that door, their love spills onto you. You will feel uplifted and blessed. You may sit and hold the hand of a child when he dies, and you may weep for his life, but you'll feel enhanced and uplifted because the divine in you touches the divine in him. There's nothing like it, nothing like it. You become part of a divine process! Can you celebrate being there and helping? If you wish to touch the family, that's where you do it. Go volunteer where the seniors are, where they're close to passing. Read them stories. Ask about their lives. Celebrate their youth, and be there when they pass over. Your divinity will celebrate their divinity, and the two of you will be enhanced. Helping those in passing, no matter what their age, creates and stimulates a part of you that will surprise you. You will ask to do it again and again, understanding that what you're doing is truly sacred work. Those are only two of the points, and already you're going to start feeling different. "Maybe I am someone!" you might say. "Perhaps there really is something to this." The dark parts of you will begin to diminish as they see the light begin to develop in areas that were dim before. That's number two. Go help someone.
3. Exercise and Meditate
This is the most difficult one, and the one you're not going to like. Exercise! In our culture we're no longer chasing animals for food! You need to balance this lack of activity with exercise. Biologically, when you exercise there is chemical balance that is shifted and changed. In addition, you take in much needed additional oxygen, a real needed fuel for the body for a Human trying to enhance new parts of their thinking. Oxygenation has been overlooked in the past. This is very needed! Let me give you another secret: Go exercise then follow it up with meditation. Watch what happens. An oxygenated brain creates a new palette for the artist of meditation. That's the order of things. Get it right: Exercise, then meditate. Don't cheat. Some of you will say, "Let me see, that's meditate and meditate, right?" That's number three, as important as any.
4. Personal Verbal Affirmations
Number four may be difficult to explain to you, and it's oversimplified. Watch what you say! The words out of your mouth are constructs of energy that are divine. They go into the air and they're fulfilled, as best can be. Perhaps in a negative situation you might say, "Oh, great! I knew that would happen." Your cellular structure says, "Did you hear the boss? She liked it! Let's do it again!" Did you ever think of that? The cells hear it, and they'll do their best to make sure it happens again! Watch what you say. Instead of negative posturing, give yourself affirmations. Blessed is the Human who understands the power of Human speech. Who are you? Say your name out loud. "I am [your name goes here]." And put the emphasis on "am" and watch what happens. Try to balance that! It's time to speak your joy!
5. Challenge Your Darkest Part
This sounds like a frightening thing, but it isn't. Challenge the dark side of you to a fight! Throw the gauntlet out. Tell it where you're going to meet and at what time, then wait for it. Dare this part to meet you head-on. Do you have parts of yourself that you don't like? Do you have dark parts that you'd like to scrub clean or perhaps put away or defeat? Well, then, challenge that darkest part of you to a fight. Set an appointment. Do you really want to be brave? Then challenge it to a fight in the dark, on its own turf! (gasp). And the reason we tell you this is because these dark and horrible parts are not going to show up! They're afraid of the light part of you, and especially the parts that are becoming stronger. You will have won this fight just standing there in the dark and daring them to show up. Soon, there you will be, in the dark, singing! Unafraid, and laughing at this whole situation. If you remember nothing else today, it's that this energy that you think is so ferocious is actually afraid of divine intent! The intent to balance will defeat this dark part every time. Empower yourself, and the dark parts of you begin to abandon ship. They don't dare show up, and they won't.
6. Claim the Angel Inside
After you realize that the dark part of you is a coward, it's time to claim the angel that's always been there. This is about understanding who you really are. Although you may never be able to see this angelic part of you, it's the true self, and it's ready to be claimed. Again, use your power of speech if you want to enhance this process. Hold a ceremony if it helps you make this process real for yourself. Do you understand how these above attributes are fitting together? Here you are being creative, helping other Human Beings, exercising, watching what you say, realizing that the dark side has no power over you, starting to feel your own life potential, and now it's time to call your angel out of hiding(hiding only because you buried it)! How would you like the drama in your life to go away? How would you like to be able to face any situation and know that you are absolutely 100 percent safe in your truth? Nobody can mold you in any direction, or in any way, when your angel is in charge. Self-worth is no longer an issue. You know who you are. It's empowering to know of your divinity. It creates a situation in your life that's joyful.
The last one, is about melding polarity. Right now on this planet, one of the things that's going on with the earth is a blending action that you can share in. There's beginning to be a meld of masculine and feminine. Those attributes of your gender that you've taken for granted--one gender is this way, one gender is that way--they'll never get together in thought--is beginning to change. Each of you is here in one gender, so we ask you to begin to accept the attributes of the other. You just thought I asked you to look at another person, didn't you? No. I want you to see the attributes of the other gender in YOU. You exist with the ability to meld a healthy balance of both genders within yourself to allow you to understand and therefore co-exist with the other gender on the planet. It makes you a far better Human to have a balanced mind of both polarities, even though you're the obvious biological gender of only one of them. Let me tell you what this balance does. It brings humanity closer together! It's called consciousness melding, and it's the start of another Human consciousness change on the planet. Stop seeing each other as opposites or as adversaries, but rather as a big family. Stop seeing the other gender within you as a weakness! Begin to understand how each of you needs the consciousness of the other. The result? The balanced Human is now able to see an overview of balance because she sees with different eyes... ones that are walking in the other's shoes, and ones that have awesome self-worth!
Thanks Kryon and Lee
The process of change
- recognising you have something which you wish to change about yourself. (congratulations, the problem is now 80% fixed)
- congratulating yourself on getting this far carrying that burden.
- congratulate yourself on wanting to change.
- deciding to see it all the way to completion.
- seeking help from a professional* who is getting results - who you can trust to ensure you get the root cause of your problem
- follow your heart!
- congratulate yourself on the sterling work and the choices you have made
- enjoy your new outlook on life.
- love yourself for changing to be a better person
*has the professional done their own work, do you feel good energy (safe) around them, do they show you love and compassion?